One of the worst pains you can feel in life is realizing that while they were digging your grave, you were worried they might hurt their hands. I still write to release these thoughts—maybe… hopefully… the last remaining ones… the last to let go. I hope someone might find them useful, and that someone might feel a little less alone.Every time I connect with the pain of others, I feel less “strange” and more “understood.” I found this picture on my iPad from the summer of 2022. I was ready to put myself out there again, willing to risk getting hurt once more (though hoping it wouldn’t happen). I was ready to embrace whatever came next, hoping this time would be the right one. I could have met so many different people, chosen so many different paths, yet somehow—I don’t even know why—I chose you, and I decided to stay, even though I found the situation quite strange. Because that’s just who I am, I stay 🙁 and it’s something I’ve always liked about myself, even though I’ve learned that in the end, I always get hurt.I’ve been “programmed” to be “good” at “welcoming” others… and to this day, I haven’t found another way of being… or any other way to live. It’s been nearly a year since I let you …
